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不知道這種文章到底是好是壞

有些東西看的還不是很懂，到底他好朋友是針對是男是女

也許都可以稍微當作一點警惕

 

朋友的禁忌：                                                                  
                                                                               
1.別以為你跟你的朋友..是那種你的東西就是我的..而我的東西是你的！！             
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~                                                             
          東西絕對要分清楚..不然到最後….東西壞了..                            
          要讓對方賠..又覺得不好意思..所以自認倒霉..                           
          但卻因此在心中會自然形成一種排斥感唷！                               
                                                                               
2.別以為你跟你的朋友…好到是不論到哪…就有人會開車或是請客..                   
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~                                                             
          偶爾1.2次..或許受得了…時間一久了~換成誰都受不了…                   
          所以出門玩之前..最好先講好...油錢大家分攤..                          
          花費大家先繳錢玩後再清點退還…                                       
          這樣不僅大家玩的快樂…也可以更增加朋友間的感覺…                     
                                                                               
                                                                               
3.別以為你跟你的朋友…熟到那種連他們的廚房.房間.你都可以自由出入…             
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~                                                             
          越是好的朋友...越是要彼此尊重…                                      
          因為畢竟不是自己的家…你憑什麼自由進出別人的地盤咧?

          那種行為只會讓人覺得你不尊重對方…                                  
          否則的話！！盡可能避免…                                             
          別以為那沒什麼..對方可是早在心裡把你罵到爛透啦！！！！               
                                                                               
4.別以為你跟你的朋友…感情很好了…所以一切都可以比較隨和..                     
  就算去到對方家…不用去在乎那些禮節…                                         
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~                                                             
          越是好的朋友..禮節越是不能少..                                       
          今天去拜訪他家~~~絕對絕對不可兩串蕉唷！！！                          
          一定要帶點”單漏”就是所謂的禮物…                                   
          哪怕是一袋水果…所謂禮輕情意重阿~也就是這種道理....                  
          又所謂的禮多人不怪阿！！！ 所以千萬別帶兩串蕉ㄚ！！                  
          切記~~                                                               
                                                                               
5.別以為你跟你的朋友…..可以到好的連上個廁所都可以形影不離啦~~                 
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~                                                             
          偶爾給對方自己一點空間…                                             
          讓彼此去看看身邊的人、事、物、回頭來..                               
          彼此的視野會更開闊的！！！                                           
          就好比你跟他每天生活在一起…

          換句難聽的~~                                                        
          那跟坐牢有什麼差別咧???                                              
          再怎麼看..就只有我看你.你看我…                                      
          哈~~大眼瞪小眼..有天總會變成鬥雞眼的啦！！！！！！！！               
          給自己及對方有更大的空間…會讓彼此成長的速度更快！！                 
                                                                               
6.別以為你跟你的朋友….是那種可以互相模仿喜歡的東西..                          
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~                                                              
          每個人的審美觀不同.模仿久了~~只會讓對方倒盡味口…                    
          因為朋友他會欣賞你自己喜歡的東西…                                   
          而不是模仿你學你喜歡的東西…                                         
          也因為你跟自己有所不同...他才會覺得新鮮阿~~                          
          否則你喜歡的跟他喜歡的都一樣..那就乾脆自己跟自己當朋友就好啦！！     
          幹嘛還找一個人來配合呢?                                              
          所以囉~~要學會懂的去喜歡欣賞對方的喜好...而不是學習！！！            
                                                                               
7.別以為你跟你的朋友….是那種有難就可以離家出走逃到他家…                      
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~~                                                            
          或許他可以幫你一陣子…                                               
          但是相同的他也必要負責起你在他身旁的責任…

          久了…我想換成任何一個人都或覺得,我幹嘛交個朋友來自找麻煩咧~        
          也會在心中產生一種厭惡感的！！                                       
          所以囉~~~越是好的朋友你更要學會去體會他的心情及他的難處！！          
          自己的難處自己擔….千萬不要去長久麻煩別人！！！                      
          人家說久病無孝子...其實也可以改成久煩無知已.......                   
          共勉之.....                                                          
                                                                               
8.別以為你跟你的朋友……是那種是那種常常可以膩在一起....就覺得彼此感情很好…   
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~~                                                            
          越是好的朋友….在一起固然會讓你忘記煩惱…                            
          但是別忘了~~還是要常常充實自己…                                     
          讓自己給對方的感覺永遠是那種新鮮的~~                                 
          否則就像叫你天天都吃一樣的菜….你不會吃到想吐嗎??                    
          呵~~~充實自己是吸引朋友最大的主因唷！！！                            
                                                                               
9.別以為你跟你的朋友…天天都可以聊很久很久...不見面就覺得難受的...             
                                                                               
  告訴你：錯啦~~~~~                                                            
          真正的朋友是會在你特別的節日.或生日時....都會打通電話問候你的人….   
          不會因為不常聯絡就忘記你的存在的！！！！                             
          朋友不會因為時間的距離而有所改變的！！